Movie #98 - Terms of Endearment

"Come to Laugh, Come to Cry, Come to Care, Come to Terms."

This is one of those can't miss chick flicks - thankfully, for you guys out there that cannot stand these films, rent this one for the wife, girlfriend, or fiancee and you'll enjoy it too - I promise.

There are a number of reasons why this is true. First of all, its written and directed by James L. Brooks. For you Simpsons fans - its the same guy... back when he was doing something else other than cartoons. For those that don't know this, Brooks is a big influence on television viewers from the 70's to today. He is responsible for such classics as the Mary Tyler Moore show, Rhoda, and Taxi to his recent stuff with the Simpsons. Throw in As Good as it Gets and you have a very versatile talent with Brooks.

However, Brooks isn't the driving force behind this film. The contrasting roles of Debra Winger and Shirley MacLaine in the typical mother-daughter love-hate relationship is what brings this film to life. MacLaine plays the nagging mother perfectly and Winger's acting compliments MacLaine's domineering character - which I believe will remind many female viewers of similar relationship woes with their mothers. Throw in some comedic relief from the likes of Jack Nicholson and you have some good chemistry for a great film.

Nicholson, MacLaine, and Brooks swept the awards that year and deservedly so. Insert other Hollywood notables such as John Lithgow, Danny DeVito, and Jeff Daniels and you have a great ensemble cast to enjoy.

There are some very funny scenes and to go in line with the chick flick recommendation, there are some very heartwarming scenes. Overall, your female companion will shed a tear and the male viewer will definitely need to prepare an excuse why there is suddenly dust in the room or an allergy that developed to some unknown animal. However, please enjoy this film as although it is over 26 years old now, it is a timeless classic that takes full advantage of actors in their prime combined with a wonderfully written script.